Once I was able to look past the silly Elmer Fudd, Jersey Shore hybrid accent, I was able to see that the poem, “Maybe Dats Your Pwoblem Too,” by Jim Hall, actually contains a very powerful message. Maybe everybody is just like Spiderman. Everyone has something that is distinguishable about them that they wish that they could change, but like Spiderman’s flame-resistant costume, they just cannot fully get rid of it. Everybody’s “Spiderman costume” is different. Some people are insecure about the way they look, embarrassed by their parents, have a disability that may or may not be obvious, or have personality traits that they do not like. Whatever it may be, we all have ourselves that we do not feel comfortable with, and anyone who claims that they don’t have something about themselves that they wish that they could change is probably deceiving themselves.
Sometimes people are able to change, but people still see that person for what they were and not completely for what they have become. When something is a part of you for so long, you cannot completely separate yourself from it. In a sense, Spiderman can replace his clothes and take on a new role, but he only has so many options for what he can do with his signature costume. Since he cannot fully destroy it because it is flame-resistant, he can take it off, fold it up, and put it in storage. Spiderman will always be a major part of who he was; people will always remember him as being Spiderman no matter what new role he chooses.
I used to be quite shy, until one day I decided that just was not who I was anymore. While change does not happen overnight, as it is a process, people do not immediately recognize it. I found it frustrating that even though I was not the same person I was, say, five years ago, my “Spiderman suit” still stayed the same. Yes, there were many people who recognized that I was no longer painfully shy, but many people just assumed that a description of me would be that of the shy person that I once was.
In a way, we are all just like Spiderman. Everyone has built up an image for himself or herself that is like his or her “Spiderman suit.” Without our own personal “suits” on, we still carry that image. It is up to each individual person to choose how much of themselves they wish to change, as well as which part of their image they want to keep. Spiderman may not want to lose all the traits what make him Spiderman, even though he wants a change of pace. It is also very difficult to try to completely change ourselves. Like Spiderman, we just cannot “quit” being who we are. We can change pieces of identity, but we cannot ever fully get rid of it because of our past. In addition, why should we have to lose are identity in order to change ourselves, when we can keep being who we were, just a newer, more up-to-date version (519)?